The Goal Is Connection, Not Perfection By Ty Bennett
When it comes to communication, whether you are speaking to a large audience, selling to an individual, teaching a class or having a conversation with your spouse, I believe that most of us aim at the wrong target.
When you read any book on communication, or if you ask anyone what their goal is for their presentation – they will talk about making it perfect.
They want you to have the right opening, structure the presentation correctly, back up every point, make it engaging, and close in a memorable way. I agree with all of those concepts (in fact I teach them) but I believe we miss the mark if we focus on perfection.
Variety is the spice of life. But if you — like me — view the world as an exciting buffet of opportunities to learn, try and create new things, you know that variety can be dangerous.
Many times I use the phrase, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you handle what happens to you, that’s going to make the difference.”  
Yesterday I was talking with one of my good friends about risk…
Chances are that you go to work, come home, eat a little unhealthy food, watch four or five hours of television, go to bed, don’t sleep well and then get up tomorrow to do it all over again.  You spend more than you make, exercise less than you should and complain that there just isn’t enough time to get it all done.  And you wonder why your life is the way it is. 
I believe and have often said that we are all one quality decision away from anything we want.  A quality decision is a certain state of mind.  It is not the process of deciding to try, attempt, or pursue something until it becomes difficult.  
Time management is the central skill of success. Your ability to manage your time, to focus and channel your energies on your highest value tasks, will determine your rewards and your level of accomplishment in life more than any other factor.