<p><img decoding="async" class="alignleft" title="Noah St. John" src="http://www.getmotivation.com/images/speakers_images/noah-st-john.jpg" alt="Noah St. John" />Saying to someone &#8220;don&#8217;t let money affect your relationships&#8221; &#8212; is like saying &#8220;don&#8217;t let oxygen affect your breathing.&#8221;</p>
<p>Without one, it&#8217;s awfully hard to have the other.</p>
<p>I tell my coaching clients that <strong>money doesn&#8217;t CHANGE anything; it REVEALS everything.</strong></p>
<p>Money acts as a magnifying glass. If you&#8217;re a poor jerk, you&#8217;ll be a rich jerk &#8212; only jerkier. If you&#8217;re a broke nice person, you&#8217;ll be a rich nice person &#8212; only nicer.</p>
<p>In these tough financial times, how can we make sure our relationships stay healthy?</p>
<p>Here are five relationships assumptions to avoid when money is tight: <span class="post-teaser-more"><br /><br />&nbsp;=>> <a href="https://www.getmotivation.com/motivationblog/2012/06/money-and-relationships-by-noah-st-john/" title="Permanent Link: Money and Relationships By Noah St. John" rel="bookmark">Click to read the full article...</a> <i></span></p>{"id":1102,"date":"2012-06-27T07:02:29","date_gmt":"2012-06-27T12:02:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/?p=1102"},"modified":"2017-09-29T18:31:41","modified_gmt":"2017-09-29T23:31:41","slug":"money-and-relationships-by-noah-st-john","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/2012\/06\/money-and-relationships-by-noah-st-john\/","title":{"rendered":"Money and Relationships By Noah St. John"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" title=\"Noah St. John\" src=\"http:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/images\/speakers_images\/noah-st-john.jpg\" alt=\"Noah St. John\" \/>Saying to someone &#8220;don&#8217;t let money affect your relationships&#8221; &#8212; is like saying &#8220;don&#8217;t let oxygen affect your breathing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Without one, it&#8217;s awfully hard to have the other.<\/p>\n<p>I tell my coaching clients that <strong>money doesn&#8217;t CHANGE anything; it REVEALS everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Money acts as a magnifying glass. If you&#8217;re a poor jerk, you&#8217;ll be a rich jerk &#8212; only jerkier. If you&#8217;re a broke nice person, you&#8217;ll be a rich nice person &#8212; only nicer.<\/p>\n<p>In these tough financial times, how can we make sure our relationships stay healthy?<\/p>\n<p>Here are five relationships assumptions to avoid when money is tight: <span class=\"post-teaser-more\"><br \/><br \/>&nbsp;=>> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/2012\/06\/money-and-relationships-by-noah-st-john\/\" title=\"Permanent Link: Money and Relationships By Noah St. John\" rel=\"bookmark\">Click to read the full article...<\/a> <i><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":null,"protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1102"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmotivation.com\/motivationblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}